Just as it is important for us to express our love for our husband with words, it is also important to show our love for our husbands by our actions, not just on Valentines Day, but regularly. Here are 11 ways to show your husband love.
That they may teach the young women … to love their husbands… Titus 2:4
Physical touch
- Give your husband a hug. There is really no right time for a hug, but they are always appreciated. Whether it is the first thing you do in the morning or the last thing you do before you go to sleep, your physical closeness can mean a lot to your man. And it’s also said by some experts, that everyone needs 15 hugs a day! Some really to thrive on touch.
- Kiss every day. Remember that small gestures are more important than lavish gifts. You may go out on an expensive dinner for your anniversary but then anniversaries come only once a year. Your husband deserves to have everyday to be special. A small gesture such as a kiss on the cheek can make your husband smile through out the day. For greater impact, make sure you kiss for a full 15 seconds!
On Purpose Special Actions
- Cook for your husband. I know, you do this all the time, but think about your husband's specific tastes, what he likes and dislikes, and make him a special meal. It can either be breakfast or a grand dinner. Find out his favorite meal and cook it for him. It is said that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.
- Surprises. If you and your husband have scheduled a night out together, set up a surprise instead. If your husband likes a specific sports team, get tickets to a game. When that evening comes around and he asks what you would like to do, tell him you have a surprise.
- Special greetings. If your husband works late welcome him home in a special way. For example, wear his favorite dress, have dinner ready and on the table and fill the dining room with candles for some soft lighting.
- Just because. Give your husband gifts “just because” or do something nice for him “just because.”
Spend Time Together
- Take your husband to the place where you had your first date. Remembering the moment you fell in love can bring back memories and those initial feelings of falling in love.
- Take an afternoon walk or hike together. Get into the outdoors where it is peaceful and serene. A quiet walk where you can hold hands, talk, or just enjoy the silence together can boost your closeness.
- Go do something fun like ice skating or to an amusement park. It may seem like a silly thing to do, but it guarantees a lot of fun and laughs. Sometimes doing things together that children love will bring back a spark of joy into your lives that as adults we often miss.
- Play games. Sit down and have a night in and play some board games. The friendly competition will keep you both on your toes and strengthen your bond.
- Learn more about each other. No matter how long you've been married or how well you think you know each other, there may still be things you can learn. Either find a good questionnaire or create one that does not dig up the past, but focuses on discovering lesser known qualities about each other.
What kinds of things do you do to show your husband you love him? I'd love to hear your suggestions as well. Please leave us a comment or join the discussion in the Paradise Praises Facebook Group.
These are all great tips! There is many on here I could work on, my husband usually gets the short end of the stick. Thanks for reminding me I could do more for him!
You are welcome Robin.
Thanks for the great ideas! I especially like the idea of playing games together. Even a simple board or card game has been a fun time of sharing for my husband me. http://www.saraborgstede.com
Yes, sometimes just the simple out of the ordinary activity does wonders for our togetherness doesn’t it. And in this day and age it’s so easy to forget the simple pleasures like board games 😉 Thanks for stopping by Sara.
I’m so glad to read that experts think 15 hugs a day is good! I was accused of being to “needy” and that I shouldn’t have to show my love so much outwardly but that it should be obvious. I agree, but for me nothing shows love like a simple hug and a kiss. Thanks for all these wonderful tips!
Hugs are a great way to “state the obvious” 😉 aren’t they Alyssa. And so many of us are made up differently. I have one child who almost never needs a touch and and another who needs repeated hugs and closeness daily. I don’t think that changes much with age. We adults need it too.
Thank you for such wonderful ideas. I never thought about the “just because” aspect. Often times we’re too busy with taking care of our daughter that we neglect to even spend quality time together, so the “just because” idea sounds like a great way to reconnect. And the surprise element of doing something nice without prompt even makes it better. Wonderful ideas and definitely worth the try 🙂
So glad you found it helpful Maria.
These are some really great tips. I’m so glad you shared at Totally Terrific Tuesday!
Great post! Love that you are spreading the message that we should love on our husbands more!!! 🙂
Thanks for sweet words Sarah.